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Watch Out for Early Signs of Abuse

The presence of one or two of these traits does not indicate that a person will be abusive, but if a person possesses many of these traits, there is cause for concern:

• Extreme Jealousy
• Controlling behavior
• Quick involvement
• Unrealistic expectations - perfect mate
• Blames others for problems and feelings
• Hypersensitivity
• Cruelty to animals
• "Playful' use of force during sex
• Verbal abuse
• Rigid sex roles

There should definitely be concern if any of the following are present:

• Past battering, a history of abuse
• Threats of violence
• Breaking or striking objects
• Any force used during an argument

 

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Ron Vick, MA, LPC
Counselor / Academic Advisor
Int'l Student Advisor