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Wayne State College
Counseling Center
Student Center, Rm. 103
1111 Main St.
Wayne, NE 68787
Phone: 402.375.7321
Fax: 402.375.7058
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> Crash
Course on Effective Abstinence
The following 200-word description
of AVRT provides the information for the basis of EA
and may be enough for you to break through and end your
own substance addiction (1):
Observe your thoughts and feelings,
positive and negative, about drinking or using. Thoughts
and feelings which support continued use are called the
Addictive Voice (AV); those which support abstinence are
you. When you recognize and understand your AV, it becomes
not-you, but "it," an easily-defeated enemy that
has been causing you to drink. All it wants is pleasure.
"I want a drink," becomes, "It wants a drink."
Think to yourself, "I will never drink again,"
and listen for its reaction. Your negative thoughts and
feelings are your AV talking back to you. Now, think, "I
will drink/use whenever I please." Your pleasant feelings
are also the AV, which is in control. Recovery is not a
process; it is an event. The magic word is "Never,"
as in, "I will never drink/use again." Recognition
defeats short-term desire, and abstinence soon becomes effortless.
Complete sepaEAtion of "you" from "it"
leads to complete recovery and hope for a better life. The
only time you can drink is now, and the only time you can
quit for good is right now. "I will never drink/use
again," becomes, "I never drink now." It's
not hard; anyone can do it (p. 6).
Using the concept of AVRT (Addictive Voice Recognition
Technique) as a starting point, Effective Abstinence helps
you to gain insight into the nature of your addiction (1,2).
Then you are in complete control over the decision to drink
or use drugs. Some people do better learning on their own,
and others learn better in group discussions. Reading this
on-line may be enough information for you to make the necessary
changes in your life to be drug-free. If you have questions,
or would like to interact in a group with others of like
mind, come to an EA meeting. EA is extremely simple, is
based on common sense, and it's free.
Although EA is simple, learning it can be tricky at first.
This is because your inner voice, what Rational Recovery
calls your "AV," is determined that you will keep
drinking or using, so it can survive. It is ruthless in
its pursuit of alcohol or drugs, but it can also be quite
subtle, forceful, seductive, persistent, and patient (1,2).
Rational Recovery and Effective Abstinence have several
things in common. One does not have to be labeled "alcoholic"
to participate. In fact, labeling of any kind is to be avoided
(2,3,4). EA, like Rational
Recovery, advocates lifetime abstinence for those who cannot
obtain moderation, but it does recognize that some problem
drinkers can and do learn to drink in moderation (4).
The religious/spiritual element is not an issue in the Rational
Recovery or the Effective Abstinence programs (5).
Similar to Rational Recovery, Effective Abstinence is based
on REBT (Rational-Emotive Behavioral therapy) and is oriented
in the present, not the past. Individuals are encouraged
to create meanings in their lives, to develop purposes,
commitments, and a philosophy of life (3,4,6).
Participants learn unconditional acceptance of themselves
and others and are taught to evaluate their thoughts, feelings,
and actions without devaluing their self (4).
EA goes further and introduces other concepts, such as the
Recovery
Medicine Wheel (7,8)
based on Native American Spiritual beliefs and values. Effective
Abstinence is an eclectic program that utilizes a variety
of concepts to assist you in overcoming your addiction.
Part of you may be deeply skeptical of the idea of
self-recovery. When you doubt this concept, you are
only doubting yourself and your own ability to quit
your addiction, right now, and for all time. You have
nothing to lose, so give it a chance. Contact the Counseling
Center at (402) 375-7321 for more information.
Effective Abstinence Links:
Crash Course on Effective Abstinence
Committment
to Abstinence
Effective
Abstinence Home
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References
1. Rational Recovery Self-Help Network
(1996, Sept). Official manual for coordinators (3rd
Ed.). Lotus, CA: Author.
2. Trimpey, J. (1994). The final
fix for alcohol and drug addiction: AVRT. Lotus, CA:
Lotus Press.
3. Bishop, F. M. (1994, Jan/Feb).
[On-Line]. Rational emotive behavioral therapy: A non-AA
option. Behavioral Health Management, 14 (1), p28, 2p.
Available: EBSCOhost/Item Number: 9407071787 [Accessed
10-21-98].
4. Ellis, A. (1992, Nov). Rational
recovery and the addiction to 12-step therapies. [On-Line].
Humanist, 52 (6), p. 33, 3p. Available: EBSCOhost -
Item Number: 9302143382 [Accessed 10-21-98].
5. McCarthy, L. F. (1991). Beyond
A.A. Health, 23,(6), 40-44.
6. Velton, E. (1996, Dec). The Rationality
of Alcoholics Anonymous and the spirituality of rational
emotive behavior therapy. Journal of Humanistic Education
& Development, 35 (2), 105-116.
7. Coggins, K. (1990). Alternative
pathways to healing: The recovery medicine wheel. Deerfield
Beach, FL: Health Communications.
8. Vick, R. D., Sr., Smith, L. M.,
& Iron Rope Herrera, C. (1998, Jan.) The healing
circle: An alternative path to alcoholism recovery.
Counseling and Values, 42, 133-141.
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Ron Vick, MA, LPC
Counselor / Academic Advisor
Int'l Student Advisor
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